BOOKING & ETIQUETTE

A GOOD INTRODUCTION

Clear arrangements matter to me. Please begin with a polite, clear introduction.

Your first message should tell me a little about yourself and what you are hoping to arrange. It does not need to be long. A few genuine sentences are enough.

I simply like to know who I am speaking to, what you are hoping to arrange, and whether the tone feels genuine and respectful from the start.

ENQUIRY DETAILS

To help me answer properly, please include:

When you enquire, please include a short introduction about yourself, along with:

Your name

Preferred date and time

Duration or type of date

Location, hotel or city

Whether you are enquiring about Dinner & Drinks, Behind Closed Doors, Until Morning or Extended Time

Incomplete messages are much harder to respond to, especially if you are asking about availability without giving the details I need.

SCREENING

All new introductions are screened before I agree to meet.

Discretion works both ways. Any private information shared with me is treated with the same respect I expect for my own privacy.

Please do not send sensitive documents in your first message. I will explain what I need once we have spoken and I am happy to take the enquiry further.

Visits to private addresses may include additional screening.

DEPOSITS

A deposit may be required before an arrangement is confirmed, particularly for longer dates or arrangements involving additional planning or travel.

Where a deposit applies, I will explain the amount, terms and payment details privately after screening.

Please do not send payment information, bank details or sensitive documents in your first message.

CONFIRMATION

A date is confirmed once screening is complete, any required deposit has been received, and I have confirmed the arrangement with you in writing.

Until then, the date and time are not held as a confirmed booking.

I will send a check-in message on the day of our date. Please respond to this before I travel.

For hotel visits, I will also ask for confirmation that you are checked in before I travel.

COMMUNICATION

WhatsApp is my preferred way to make an enquiry. Your first contact must always be in writing.

Once we have exchanged a few messages, I am happy to arrange a short phone call if it would be useful, but please do not call without arranging it with me first.

Directness is welcome when it comes with courtesy, but I do not respond to crude, explicit, demanding or overly familiar messages.

UNTIL MORNING & EXTENDED TIME

Until Morning and Extended Time require a little more planning, so please include your proposed timings, location and any travel or accommodation details when you enquire.

For overnight arrangements, sleeping arrangements and appropriate rest will be discussed and agreed in advance. Please respect the agreed sleeping arrangements and my need for uninterrupted rest.

For longer arrangements, practical details such as meals, travel, accommodation and rest will also be agreed in advance.

BEFORE YOU ENQUIRE

I meet gentlemen aged 25 and over and I do not arrange dates with couples.

I keep my availability selective, so I appreciate enquiries from people who are genuinely in a position to arrange the date they are asking about.

I do not respond to messages that simply say “Available?”, “Available now?” or similar. Please include enough information for me to understand who I am speaking to and what you have in mind.

THE RIGHT CONNECTION

I am selective about who I meet because the best dates work when there is genuine mutual interest.
The right introduction does not need to be perfect. It should simply feel polite, clear and genuine enough for me to want to continue the conversation.

CHANGES AND CANCELLATIONS

If you need to change a booking, please let me know as early as possible.

Short-notice changes, cancellations or no-shows may affect whether I agree to future arrangements.

Any deposit or cancellation terms that apply will be explained before the booking is confirmed.